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Taffy Brodesser-Akner has an interesting piece in the Times today about nasty comments she received on a piece she wrote about her experience with Postpartum Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. I found it pertinent, considering the fact that the comments about Gendy Alimurung’s piece on Some Girls in the LA Weekly were so incendiary they got their whole own post, The Vagina Dialogues.

In an earlier post, I poked fun at myself for feeling a wee bit thin skinned during my virgin voyage into internet viciousness. I’ve actually come to a place now in which I welcome the dialogue. It just took a minute to adjust to this huge transition, in which I’ve effectively entirely traded in my privacy. I’m not complaining, it was a choice I made consciously. But it has catalyzed a sea change in my relationship with the world around me.

I skimmed Taffy’s comments to see how her experiment in engaging with the commenters was going, but I had to stop when I got to the misogynistic comment basically equating the value of any “personal” articles about “pregnancy or post-partum whatever” with that of the Youtube video of a cat playing the piano.

It saddened me, to tell you the truth. I don’t have the stomach for that shit this early in the morning. I’m going to go cleanse my palate and do something soul-enriching, like watching that live webcam of the squirrels eating in weird obsessive dioramas. I’ve included a slideshow above, if you’d care to join me.

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  1. I found an interview with you yesterday I think with Mcleans but wow you were amazing.I am just a mom of a teen and a toddler living on a smallish Island in Western Canada but I was amazed.I had a secret life many years ago that I have kept private and have lived just being a mom and always felt that I could never share my story.Thank you for being so very couragous and writing what I can hardly wait to read.Please excuse the total lack of flow or even my inability to convey what I am really trying to say but I am down the the flu to end all flu’s.But please know that you writing this book and putting yourself out there has changed somthing in me and hopefully will allow me to live a more authentic life. Book is ordered from my local bookstore and I cant wait to read the book.Thank you again, Melissa.

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