Archive for September 2011

The PRETTY Book Tour Begins

I visited my book at LAX before embarking on this first leg of the tour, which seemed like a good omen.

Dragged the fam with me and we’re having a fantastic time in NY so far. We’re doing all kinds of touristy stuff, like riding the Circle Line cruise around the island and going bowling at Chelsea Pier. We’re getting soaked in thunderstorms and having a heck of a time trying to convince T that you don’t splash around in puddles on NY streets (staph infection just doesn’t seem to be a compelling argument for a 3 year old). But as far as problems go, I’ll take it. I’m pleased to report that traveling has definitely taken a turn for the easier somewhere along the way. T isn’t so freaked out about strange bathtubs and beds and he’s actually able to watch movies straight through, so the plane ride is easier. He’s definitely dysregulated, but it’s a manageable level and not one that makes me rue the day we bought the tickets. That’s progress.

I’m actually doing quite a bit of live storytelling on this tour, as opposed to just strictly reading from my novel. I told a story at the Soundtrack Series on Thursday night and it was a fantastic time. The lineup included Nat Cassidy, Julie Klausner, David Crabb, Bridget O’Neil and Andy Ross. Everyone told a story about a song and they were each hilarious and touching and amazing. My song was “Dancing in the Dark,” paying homage to my Jersey roots. Here’s a pic of David and me:

And tonight, I had the privilege of reading at Melville House in Brooklyn with two of my favorite authors, Nick Flynn and Melissa Febos. It was a true thrill. Thanks to everyone who came out.

Next stop, Hudson, where I get to see my closest, oldest girlfriend and throw my kid in the junior UFC octagon with her kids. Every time we see them, I spend about two hours crying on the way home because we can’t live closer to each other. But still, it’s worth it. I can’t wait.

Banned Books Week

I have rarely been quite so tickled as when I learned that my memoir, Some Girls: My Life in a Harem, had been banned. It seemed glamorous to me, placing me in the illustrious company of the likes of Hemingway and Fitzgerald. Some Girls has been banned in at lease two countries- Brunei and Dubai. I only know this because of the emails I’ve received from readers who live there and managed to get their hands on a copy anyway.

Reading those emails filled me with a sense of gratitude. I wrote my sometimes-scandalous book without a second thought because we live in a country that has freedom of the press. But perhaps that sense of gratitude is misplaced. I escape censorship because my book flies under the radar by dealing with such obviously taboo subjects as teenage prostitution. No one is suggesting that my memoir go on the shelf of a school library. But if the recent publication of the altered version of Huckleberry Finn is any indicator, censorship is still very much a relevant issue in this country, First Amendment or no.

This week is Banned Books Week. Here’s an excerpt of what the American Library Association website has to say about it.

Banned Books Week (BBW) is an annual event celebrating the freedom to read and the importance of the First Amendment. Held during the last week of September, Banned Books Week highlights the benefits of free and open access to information while drawing attention to the harms of censorship by spotlighting actual or attempted bannings of books across the United States.

Intellectual freedom—the freedom to access information and express ideas, even if the information and ideas might be considered unorthodox or unpopular—provides the foundation for Banned Books Week. BBW stresses the importance of ensuring the availability of unorthodox or unpopular viewpoints for all who wish to read and access them.

In celebration, I decided to revisit an old fave of mine from this list of the Banned and/or Challenged Books from the Radcliffe Publishing Course Top 100 Novels of the 20th Century.

Because so many of the challenges happen through the public school system, I chose an author who was deeply influential to me in high school. I was rather surprised to learn that Kurt Vonnegut’s Slaughterhouse Five has been challenged as recently as 2007, because from my recollection, Slaughterhouse Five wasn’t exactly Naked Lunch or Story of the Eye.

I reread the book and STILL couldn’t figure out what was so controversial about it. So I looked it up. Slaughterhouse Five has been repeatedly challenged, banned and even burned for such crimes as irreverence (which is apparently inherently offensive), profanity and the depiction of sex.

Slaughterhouse Five is about the life of a man named Billy Pilgrim, whose defining experience is surviving the WW2 bombing of Dresden. The structure of the book is organized around the idea of time travel. The non-linear juxtaposition of moments creates a sense of absurdity and fatalism that form the book’s central themes.

As I watch my three-year-old son begin to sort through the complexities of what makes up a joke, I’m reminded of the essential place of humor in organizing the human experience. Vonnegut was perhaps my first real exposure to the use of satire in addressing complex existential quandries. Satire was an important tool for me in learning to think about otherwise unthinkable atrocities.

After 20-odd years, it was a pleasure to revisit Vonnegut. His unique voice was transformative for me as a young reader and has remained influential to me as a writer.

Beach Read

A reader sent this picture of Pretty in to The Nervous Breakdown, where it’s the book club pick for September. It was taken in New Orleans.

This makes me positively joyful.

New Digs

Here’s a pic of D.J. Mendel, Juli Crockett and me from our Cattywampus rehearsals for the New Original Works Festival at REDCAT this weekend. It’s been a fast and furious week, shaping the show so that it makes sense in the new digs. It’s a big, gorgeous space and I’m excited to open the show there tonight. If you’re local, come see us!

Here’s an interview with our director Robert Cucuzza in the LA Stage Times and an article about the festival from last week’s LA Times.

Party People

Nothing like a little book release to make me completely nuts and insecure and self-doubting and depressed and generally kind of mean and bitchy (just ask my family). The cheery question I get asked most frequently lately is, “Are you excited that your book came out?”

Grateful, yes. Relieved, yes. Excited, not really. Not to sound sour, but it’s the truth. It’s a vulnerable and scary time.

But my spirits were lifted at the Book Soup launch event for Pretty. It was a treat. Sincere thanks to all of you who came out and celebrated with me! I really felt the love. I hope you had as good a time as I did.

Lisa Dee and Juli Crockett of the Evangenitals sang some tunes.

Mr. Shriner was actually in town this time!

With J Ryan Stradal and Stephen Elliott (looking awfully suspect).

Up to no good: Ernest Greene, Robert Cucuzza, Scott Shriner, Steve De Jarnatt and Brian Ray.

Who has a sexier signing line than this? Okay, Duff McKagan is signing next week and he probably will, but not by much…

With Ricky Mahler

PRETTY Party

I hope I’ll be seeing some of you L.A. area folks tonight at my launch event at Book Soup. We’ve had a little last minute change of plans and I’m just thrilled to bits that my buddy, the fabulously talented Juli Crockett of the Evangenitals, will be playing a few tunes before I get up and start yakking.

To celebrate, and for all of my peeps who’ve been along for the ride, the first 250 folks who order a copy of Pretty today (gotta be today) will get one of these fab necklaces. Just email your receipt to pretty.the.book@gmail.com, and Pretty bling will soon be at your door. (Obviously, your addy is safe with me, and the only thing I’ll use it for is to get this to you.)

Thanks for being part of the journey.

And here’s Juli. Ain’t she the cutest thing? Just wait until you see how she rocks a guitar over a giant pregnant belly. She’s a a marvel.

My Fair-Weather Friendship with the Fridge

Check out my new TODAY Moms post about my ambivalence toward cooking…

Literary Death Match – Los Angeles, CA

Los Angeles: we’ve missed you too much, which is why we’re teaming with 826LA to return Literary Death Match back to the City of Angels, with a mind-twisting lineup that’ll light Busby’s East literarily and comedically aflame!

The wondrous evening will feature the darling TV mastermind Jill Soloway (executive producer of Six Feet Under and United States of Tara), Ben Acker and Ben Blacker (creators of the absurdly brilliant Thrilling Adventure Hour), and Marilyn: Intimate Exposures author Susan Bernard (Faster, Pussycat! Kill! Kill! and Playboy’s Playmate of the Month, December 1966)!

They’ll oversee a prodigious foursome of literary sages, including the must-see poet Beau Sia (featured on Def Poetry Jam), author of How to Live in a Science Fictional Universe and Third Class Superhero Charles Yu, the exceptionally talented Jillian Lauren (author of New York Times best-selling Some Girls and the all-new Pretty), and LA Times staff writer and general brainiac Margaret Wappler!

Hosted by LDM creator Todd Zuniga & LDM Austin, Ep. 1 champion Amelia Gray.

Doors at 8, Show at 9:15 (sharp); afterdrinks after.
Cost: $7 preorder; $10 on the door.

Literary Death Match – New York, NY

Making November a month to remember, Literary Death Match is teaming with legendary illustrator Rick Meyerowitz to celebrate our 40th-ever NYC event with an unprecendented four-judge lineup beneath Drom’s seductive lights.

The all-star reading lineup brings together New Yorker music critic Sasha Frere-Jones, LA-based Jillian Lauren (author of New York Times best-selling Some Girls and the all-new Pretty), the masterful Teddy Wayne (author of the novel Kapitoil — a 2011 PEN/Robert W. Bingham Prize runner-up), and Moth StorySlam champ Angela Lovell (author of Mouseschawitz – My Summer Job of Concentrated Fun).

They’ll aim to impress the first-ever four-judge panel, rich with brainiacs including Meyerowitz (co-illustrator of the brilliant New Yorkistan New Yorker cover), “the sharpest tack in Brooklyn,” Sean Kelly (former National Lampoon editor, and Heavy Metal magazine founder), the loquacious Danny Abelson (author of The Muppets Take Manhattan), and comedian Jena Friedman (writer for Late Show with David Letterman)!

Hosted by LDM creator Todd Zuniga

Pr-order $7 advance tickets here

Literary Death Match NYC

PRETTY Book Tour – Houston, TX

Texas Book Festival – Austin TX

The 16th Texas Book Festival, which will take place in the Texas State Capitol and in downtown Austin the weekend of Oct. 22-23rd. With 250 of the nation’s most accomplished authors, the Festival unites writers with readers of all kinds, from literary fiction fans to readers who want to know where the nation is headed politically to children picking up their first books. Free and open to the public, the Festival is one big inspiring conversation.

American Reinventions: The Fiction of Leaving Home
with Jillian Lauren, Jennifer Niven, and Kerry Reichs

Date: Saturday, October 22, 2011
Time: 2:15 – 3:15
Location: Capitol Extension Room E2.028

“There are no second acts in American lives.” F. Scott Fitzgerald’s observation has always been treated as a kind of literary scripture, but is it really true anymore? Jennifer Niven, Jillian Lauren, and Kerry Reichs’ new novels reveal characters willing – or desperate – to reinvent themselves, with all the excitement and uncertainty reinvention implies. Maeve Connelly’s epic road trip in Kerry Reich’s new novel, Leaving Unknown, is taking her through every colorfully named tiny town in America on her way to the far less imaginatively named Los Angeles, California. Velva Jean Hart, the fiercely independent heroine of Jennifer Niven’s new novel, Velva Jean Learns to Fly, is at the heart of this captivating adventure of a woman bristling at the limitations faced by a woman in rural Appalachia and fueled by the memory of her late Mama telling her to “live out there.” Bebe Baker, the antihero of Jillian Lauren’s new book Pretty: A Novel, is an ex-everything: ex-stripper, ex-Christian, ex-drug addict, ex-pretty girl who looks for something to believe in before something – her past, the dangerously magnetic men in her life, her own bad choices – knocks her off course again.

Moderator Lynda Rutledge, a fifth generation Texan, has lived, traveled and published widely as a freelance journalist, her work appearing in national and international publications such as the Chicago Tribune and Poets & Writers. She has an MA in American literature and an MFA in creative writing, and recently returned to Texas to focus on fiction. Her debut novel Faith Bass Darling’s Last Garage Sale is forthcoming in 2012 from Amy Einhorn Books/Putnam.

Authors:
Kerry Reichs
Jennifer Niven
Jillian Lauren
http://www.texasbookfestival.org/2011_Festival_Details.php

List of writers:
http://www.texasbookfestival.org/Authors.php

Vicki Abelson’s Women Who Write

Readings For Women, by Women
and more than occasionally, exceptional men, too

Hosted by Vicki Abelson
http://www.vickiabelson.com/site/Women_Who_Write/Women_Who_Write.html

Writers With Drinks – San Francisco, CA

http://www.writerswithdrinks.com/
Who: Rebecca Solnit, Jillian Lauren, Diana Turken, Geek Porn Girl and Tomas Moniz!
Where: The Make Out Room, 3225 22nd. St. between Mission and
Valencia, San Francisco
How much: $5 to $10 sliding scale, all proceeds benefit Seven Teepees.

About the readers/performers:
Rebecca Solnit’s books include Infinite City: A San Francisco Atlas, A California Bestiary, A Paradise Built in Hell: The Extraordinary Communities that Arise in Disaster, A Field Guide to Getting Lost and Wanderlust: A History of Walking. She’s received a Guggenheim Fellowship, a Lannan literary fellowship, two NEA Fellowships for Literature, and a 2004 Wired Rave Award.

Tomas Moniz is the co-editor of Rad Dad, a zine about parenting, and a new anthology, Rad Dad: Dispatches from the Front Lines of Fatherhood.

Jillian Lauren is the author of the novel Pretty, as well as the memoir Some Girls: My Life in a Harem. Her writing has appeared in The Paris Review, The New York Times, Vanity Fair, Flaunt Magazine, Opium Magazine, Society, Pale House: A Collective and in the anthologies My First Time: A Collection of First Punk Show Stories and Tarnished: True Tales of Innocence Lost.

Suzi, aka Geek Porn Girl, runs the Geek Porn Girl blog, “a blog for gay girls in glasses.” While the blog is sex positive, the “porn” in the title refers to “an obsession with trivial, egg-headed details.”

Diana Turken was born and raised in Los Angeles, Ca. She is currently working on her MFA degree in Poetry at Mills College. She likes to write about railroad barons, cowboys, and Californians. She is a cable news junkie, a basketball fanatic, and makes her own biscuits from scratch. She lives and works in Oakland.

About Writers With Drinks:

Writers With Drinks has won “Best Literary Night” from the SF Bay Guardian readers’ poll six years in a row and was named “Best Literary Drinking” by the SF Weekly. The spoken word “variety show” mixes genres to raise money for local worthy causes. The award-winning show includes poetry, stand-up comedy, science fiction, fantasy, romance, mystery, literary fiction, erotica, memoir, zines and blogs in a freewheeling format.

PRETTY Book Tour – Brooklyn, NY

Rare Bird Lit and Melville House present the Brooklyn Launch Event for JILLIAN LAUREN’s new novel, PRETTY (Plume/Penguin | August 30, 2011) with very special guests MELISSA FEBOS (WHIP SMART) and NICK FLYNN (ANOTHER BULLSHIT NIGHT IN SUCK CITY; THE CAPTAIN ASKS FOR A SHOW OF HANDS).

Friday, September 23rd, 2011, 8pm
Melville House Bookstore
145 Plymouth Street
Brooklyn, NY 11201

http://mhpbooks.com/aboutsub.php?id=43

Event books available for purchase on-site.

ABOUT PRETTY
An electrifying debut novel from the New York Times bestselling author of Some Girls.

Bebe Baker is an ex-everything: ex-stripper, ex-Christian, ex-drug addict, ex-pretty girl.

It’s been one year since the car accident that killed her boyfriend left her scarred and shaken. Flanked by an eccentric posse of friends, she is serving out a self-imposed sentence at a halfway house, while trying to finish cosmetology school. Amid the rampant diagnoses, over-medication, compulsive eating, and acrylic nails of Los Angeles, Bebe looks for something to believe in before something—her past, the dangerously magnetic men in her life, her own bad choices—knocks her off course again.

ABOUT JILLIAN LAUREN
Author and performer Jillian Lauren grew up in suburban New Jersey and fled across the water to New York City. She attended New York University for three minutes before dropping out to work in downtown theater, where she performed with Richard Foreman’s Ontological Hysteric Theater, among others.

Her New York Times bestselling memoir, SOME GIRLS: My Life in a Harem, was published by Plume in April 2010. It has since been translated into fourteen different languages.

Her novel, PRETTY, will be released on August 30, 2011.

Jillian has an MFA in Creative Writing from Antioch University. Her writing has appeared in The Paris Review Daily, The New York Times, Vanity Fair, Flaunt Magazine, Opium Magazine, Society, Pale House: A Collective and in the anthology My First Time: A Collection of First Punk Show Stories.

She has read at spoken word events across the country and has been interviewed on such television programs as The View, Good Morning America and Howard Stern. She was a featured dancer with the infamous Velvet Hammer Burlesque. As a performer, she has worked with directors as diverse as Robert Cucuzza, Steve Balderson, Lynne Breedlove, Austin Young, Michelle Carr and Margaret Cho.

Jillian recently premiered her solo performance piece, Mother Tongue, at the Steve Allen Theater in Los Angeles.

She regularly blogs at TODAY Moms, The Nest and Jillianlauren.com.

She is married to musician Scott Shriner. They live in Los Angeles with their son.

MELISSA FEBOS is the author of the critically acclaimed memoir, WHIP SMART (St. Martin’s Press), which Kirkus Reviews said, “Expertly captures grace within depravity.” She has been featured on NPR’s Fresh Air with Terry Gross and the cover of the NY Post, among many other national publications. Her writing has been published in venues such as Hunger Mountain, Dissent, The Southeast Review, Redivider, The Rambler, Storyscape Journal, The Huffington Post, The New York Times, Bitch Magazine, The Chronicle of Higher Education Review, and on The Nervous Breakdown (thenervousbreakdown.com), where she regularly blogs. She co-curates and hosts the Mixer Reading and Music Series at Cake Shop, has taught at SUNY Purchase College, The New School, NYU, and Sarah Lawrence College, and is currently Assistant Professor at Utica College. Recently named one of “Five New Queer Voices to Watch Out For” by Lambda Literary, she is the winner of the Memoirs Ink contest, and a 2010 & 2011 MacDowell Colony fellow. She speaks widely, from classrooms and conference panels, and splits her time between Brooklyn and upstate New York. She is currently at work on a novel. More at melissafebos.com.

NICK FLYNN’s most recent book is The Captain Asks for a Show of Hands, a collection of poems that are linked to his latest memoir, The Ticking is the Bomb, which the Los Angeles Times calls a “disquieting masterpiece.” His previous memoir, Another Bullshit Night in Suck City, won the PEN/Martha Albrand Award, was shortlisted for France’s Prix Femina, and has been translated into thirteen languages. He is also the author of two other books of poetry, Some Ether, and Blind Huber, as well as a play, Alice Invents a Little Game and Alice Always Wins, for which he received fellowships from, among other organizations, The Guggenheim Foundation and The Library of Congress. Some of the venues his poems, essays and non-fiction have appeared in include The New Yorker, the Paris Review, National Public Radio’s This American Life, and The New York Times Book Review. His film credits include artistic collaborator and “field poet” on the film Darwin’s Nightmare, which was nominated for an Academy Award for best feature documentary in 2006. A film version of Another Bullshit Night in Suck City is due out in 2012 from Focus Features, starring Robert De Niro, Paul Dano, and Julianne Moore. Each spring he teaches at the University of Houston—he then spends the rest of the year in (or near) Brooklyn.

DIRECTIONS
The store is on Plymouth, between Jay and Pearl Streets, in the DUMBO neighborhood of Brooklyn.

By train: F to York; or A/C to High Street/Brooklyn Bridge.

From the York Street F station: Exit on to Jay, turn right and walk three blocks. Take a left on Plymouth and you’ll find the store at the end of the block.

From the High Street/Brooklyn Bridge A station: Exit to Adams Street. Follow Adams toward the River to Pearl Street and take a left on Pearl Street. Walk 5 blocks on Pearl and you’ll reach the bookshop.

PRETTY Book Tour – San Francisco, CA

Reading at the Hotel Rex on Union Square. Details to come…

PRETTY Trailer

The book trailer for Pretty is done.

I love the music. Wasn’t it clever of me to marry such a talented rocker?

It was directed by Aaron Nardi. Music by the house band: Scott Shriner. Still photos by my Cattywampus co-star, renaissance man D.J. Mendel.

Let me know what you think.

If you’re reading this on FB, you can watch the trailer here: http://youtu.be/cSPCTUcMXj8

How I Learned To Survive – New York, NY

The How I learned Series is a monthly series featuring writers, storytellers, comedians, bloggers and other performers as chosen by hostess Blaise Allysen Kearsley based primarily on personal hygiene and make-out prowess. Offering fact, fiction and everything in between, How I Learned happens every 4th Wednesday, which basically means you will have the best night of your life on those nights. Repeatedly.

Jillian Lauren will be present for the September 28th event, and will be joined by:

Alexander Chee (Edinburgh)
Ed Gavagan (The Liar Show)
Joanne Solomon (De La Guarda)
Melanie Hamlett (The Moth)

FREE Admission!
For More information, http://www.howilearnedathappyending.blogspot.com/
For directions to the Happy Ending Lounge http://www.happyendinglounge.com/